Thursday, May 28, 2020
Home Entertainment Actress Gloria Romero on Motherhood: "We also have to listen to our...

Actress Gloria Romero on Motherhood: “We also have to listen to our children.”

The MMFF 2018 Best Actress surely gave us some valuable insights about motherhood!

Gloria Romero is a living legacy in the Philippine film and television industry. Her Best Actress win in the 2018 Metro Manila Film Festival (MMFF) and all the other awards and recognitions she’s received throughout her decades-long career speak a lot about her accomplishments as an actress.

But more than being successful in her craft, Romero says that her life’s real pride and honor is her family.

My Pope had the opportunity to ask Romero about her experience as a mother to her daughter Maritess and a grandmother to her grandson Christopher. Short but sweet, our interview with Romero gave us some valuable insights about motherhood. Read on and prepare to be inspired yourselves!

Also Read: A Filipina Culinary Icon’s Legacy

Gloria with her daughter Maritess and grandson Christopher. (Photos courtesy of Maritess Gutierrez)

What advice can you share about motherhood?

Kanya-kanya ‘yang diskarte. Everybody has their own way of dealing with children. For me, I believe that we cannot control our children. We need to listen to them. I’m 84 years old, and in my time, we were not allowed to question or answer back to our elders. We could not reason out. Nagyon, iba na. Of course, children still have to have respect for their parents. But we, as parents, also have to respect them. If they want to say things, we have to listen. Hindi pwede na binabara natin sila because yes, they can learn from us—but we can also learn from them.

How do you stay close to your daughter and apo?

The way I brought up my daughter (with Juancho Gutierrez) and my grandson is that I’m not only a mom or lola, but also their friend. Because if they feel they can talk to you, they come to you and tell you their problems even if you don’t ask them. They are the ones who volunteer or ask my advice, which I think is right. But please correct me if I’m wrong—this might not work for everyone!

What has being a mother and grandmother taught you?

May kanya-kanyang mga problems. Mabuti pa na nagsigawan kayo kaysa silence. Ang silence, masakit, ‘di ba? They don’t know how you feel, you don’t know how they feel. What is important is that you communicate and be honest with each other. I don’t care if you get mad at me—I have to tell you the truth. At my age now, I became more understanding. I have a tendency to spoil people around me but sometimes kailangan may limitation. I am so happy that my daughter takes care of me, my apo always says “I love you” and takes care of me. I wish I had more kids and grandchildren, but God knows I am happy with the ones that I have.

Text by Mia Fausto-Cruz and Tata Mapa.



Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here

Most Recent

‘Strict social distancing’ shall be observed during Mass – CBCP

As more places in the country begin to lessen quarantine restrictions, the Church is also on its way to adopting the "new normal." The Catholic...

UP graduate now set to become Philippines’ first gravitational physicist

At least once in our lives, we have heard or learned of the names Albert Einstein, Marie Curie, Galileo Galilei, and Stephen Hawking. These...

On May 30, let us join Pope Francis in prayer of the Holy Rosary

Undoubtedly, the COVID-19 pandemic has affected millions of people all around the world. And it's not just those who contracted the disease that are...

ICYMI: These websites offer thousands of online cooking classes!

During the quarantine, some of us simply can't stay home without doing anything productive. Even if productivity during a pandemic isn't a contest, some...
- Advertisment -


- Advertisment -